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🔻Ali Reza Panahian Popular speaker & teacher. Expert in education & ethics. Strategist & theorist. Head of a seminary. Author. Panahian.net Facebook.com/panahianEN Instagram.com/PanahianEN Twitter.com/PanahianEN Youtube.com/c/PanahianEnglish
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❗️What can we do if we can't get married for now? 🔻This is a very appropriate question. Many young people cannot get married now. The answer is that they should not think about such topics. Maybe you think I’m an old man giving this advice, "Young people, don't think about these things!" No, this is a solution that one should come to by himself! The main solution is that young people should try to not think about such topics. 🔻TV serials are corrupting, because one may not be in a position to get married at the moment, but these serials push him/her to want to get married. These programs cause one to think of him/herself in the place of the character of the story in the relationship between a husband and wife or even a couple who are engaged. 🔻You should pay careful attention to this point that you should try to occupy your mind with other topics. Study or choose a group of friends. In any way possible, you should distract your thinking. I ask that you don’t watch such TV programs. Those television programs corrupt a person’s thinking, even if it is not about something that is forbidden. 🔻What can I say about the fact that even many cartoons are contaminated with the discussion of relationships between boys and girls? Such cartoons and TV programs are made based on the plans of the enemies of humanity. They themselves do not live like this. Those who are ruling the world live differently [and they do not constantly busy their thinking with such topics], because they want to be leading people. 🔻I request that you think independently and direct your mind to think about other topics so that you will not think about such things. 🔻You should know that women like men who do not have memories of other girls! A man may say, “We had a group of friends in school. We played soccer together. We would exercise. We would go mountaineering. We also studied in the university, but I was with other men there. When I first started thinking about getting married, I met you two months later.” God knows how much a woman enjoys living with such a man and how much this man enjoys his life! What's the point of getting married if you don't enjoy your life?! @PanahianEN
⚠️ Never let yourself feel so guilty that you abandon religion. 🌱 Never think you have become so far from God that you want to cut off your relationship with Him. ◾️If you get involved in inappropriate relationships in your life, never feel so guilty that you stop praying. Don't see yourself as God's enemy and think that God is your enemy. In such relationships, you know you have committed a sin. Feeling guilty because of committing such sins is not related to religion. Even if you get involved in such sins, never feel so guilty that you think you have left religion. ◾️As soon as some youth commit a single sin, they immediately pout with God. We are talking about relationships between men and women. Are we talking about a sin? I don’t want to judge that. I don't want to discuss whether a sin has been committed, or not. With regards to different people, the answer is definitely different! But nothing should cause someone who commits a sin to think that he has become an unbeliever! ◾️Others should not consider him to be an unbeliever either. But one of the things Satan whispers to you is, “Look, do you want to pray again tonight!? Once you have sinned, it doesn’t matter if it was one sin or a hundred sins!” ◾️Feel good spiritually! If something like this happens to you in your life, never think that you have moved so far away from God that you want to cut off your relationship with Him. ◾️For some of you of course, this relationship may be like a deadly poison. It may knock you out of existence! Sometimes in such a relationship, you may become used to behaving badly. Be careful! Don't think from my words that there is nothing wrong with these relationships. I truly count on your intellect and spirituality, and on the purity of your inner being. That is why I can easily talk to you. @PanahianEN
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😢 My dear Zaynab, can you believe this is Karbala? 💔 “How can I be separated from you?” 🔴 youtu.be/rt1bQjmXF4U @PanahianEN
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🔥They killed Husayn, the son of Fatimah (as), for the sake of God. ⚠️ A False Spirituality 🔴 youtu.be/Eb6AvreNJjs @PanahianEN
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◾️O Aba al-Fazl (as), don’t enter the battlefield… 🔻It was then that Abbas (as) stood still. 🔴 youtu.be/O5gQwdEcTP0 @PanahianEN
🖤 Condolences on the anniversary of the martyrdom of Imam Husayn (as) and his 72 companions @PanahianEN
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❤️ The Only Way to Taste the Sweetness of Being Close to God 🌱Imam Husayn (as) has made sincerity easy for you. 🔴 youtu.be/10ipFf2Efv0 @PanahianEN
🤔A very strange question! 😳 Does religion value a person’s freedom of choice?! @PanahianEN
❗️Can I push my child to pray at any cost? Paying attention to freedom of choice is not only important in social and political matters; it should be discussed in family training too. Religion does not allow us to invite others, even to do good deeds, using psychological pressures!   Many of Islam’s teachings and beautiful morals, such as piety, show the importance of freedom of choice. Piety, which has been stressed so much in Islam, comes from within and has meaning if people have the right to choose. If a servant chooses to go toward God himself, God honors and rewards him. In the family and at school, help children know the value of freedom of choice so they won’t be easily influenced by others, by encouragements or by punishments. Most children will choose well if they know the value of freedom of choice. If a child grows up under psychological pressures, such as being ridiculed at home, he may misbehave in society later due to a fear of his friend’s ridicule, because his independence has been damaged in the family. If you keep frightening your child, he may take unlawful sustenance in his work later due to a fear of poverty. Or if you encourage him too much and spoil him causing him to feel a constant need for affection, he may misbehave later due to a little encouragement from others. Imam Baqir (as) said, “If you get happy when the people in your city say, ‘You are a good person,’ you are no longer one of our friends (because people can mislead you with their encouragement). Or if you get upset when the people in your city say, ‘You are a bad person’, you are not one of our friends.” [Tuhaf al-Uqul, p. 284] If people can change your behavior with a few words, you are weak and cannot use your freedom of choice properly. You must find the correct path yourself. Discernment and mental strength are necessary tools for freedom of choice so we won’t be influenced by others. Consider the question, “Should I push my child to pray at any cost?” No, if we help our children to realize the value of freedom of choice, to use freedom of choice properly and to not be influenced by pressures from others, they will pray themselves. @PanahianEN
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⚠️What do some parents do that repels their children? 🔻The adverse effects of constant parental censure 🔴 youtu.be/1u02xcuXbfc @PanahianEN
👊🏼 Does religion force people? 🤔 Why do we feel that God is forcing us? @PanahianEN